Tuesday, December 10, 2013

In a pondan's heels

And then life goes on...

I just saw my friend's facebook status and it got me thinking.
My friend is gay, u know that typical what u call 'pondan' in Malaysia? he/she posted this.

"Hari ni cantik tarikh kan.. 11.12.13... sekali seumur hidup ja kita rasa ni.. semua org sibuk da maw couple d tarikh ni..yg maw kawin pun ada.. tp,sy??? mcm biasa... Bersendirian terussssss... tiada yg special pd tarikh ni.. hmmmm.. kecian..
#YgpentingLifeMustGoOn#" 


it is just a typical facebook post but..it really did got me thinking. 

I kept saying that my life was hard and kept saying that i cant wait for it to end, life sucks, but look at that! Imagine being a pondan in Malaysia, ur longing for another man and all men are just disgusted by u. Even if u get a man, u cant go public or people might get grossed out or you might get mocked by a bunch of so-called-real-men ass holes. 

Everywhere u go, whoever u are with, people will always look at u with such negativity. and imagine being a Muslim pondan! all the people of the same faith want to burn u alive! and your own family, I dont even wanna go there.

And then suddenly! my life isnt that hard at all! their lives are! the pondan in Malaysia. 

Gosh if u think of pondans, well I dont know about u guys, but when I think of them the first thing that comes up to mind is a bunch of pondans laughing, talking loud, walking sexy, attracting attention, well ive never seen them sad before. 

HOW THE HELL CAN THEY BE SO STRONG?? =( im sad just thinking about it. 
According to my friend's post, he is lonely. well, need i not to explain why, we all know pretty much enough. 

I dont have a point in this actually, well, maybe i do, my point is, no matter what happens, how bad it goes, how unbelievably terrible life happens, life goes on man. 

If a pondan with such hard life can stay strong, why cant we right? so fight until u die, just keep on moving forward because, life goes on. 

ANOTHER point, fuck homophobia. screw all those who think that they are real men who mock and make fun of gay people. If i put those guys in the gays' shoes for just one day, they might kill themselves already. Because they are not strong at heart, like the gays are. 

Who's the pussy now? think about it. Well, but it all comes to..life goes on.   

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ya thats it